Forget your new year’s resolution, there’s a much better way to make positive change happen in your life.
Here’s how:
Give yourself, your family, and your colleagues the best possible Christmas present.
Read MorePride is so obvious in others but we’re rarely aware of it in ourselves. And it can bite us big time.
Here’s why humility is the best antidote.
Our expectations of the future can constrain us when they get baked into our thinking, planning, and behaviour. We’re certain it’s gonna happen and sure enough, it does. Creating a different future requires stepping outside what we know and taking a stand for something we don’t know how to do.
Here’s a great example.
Read MoreGenerous listening is a potent leadership skill, yet I rarely hear it mentioned by any of the fancy journals. We have the ability to make people shrivel up and feel stupid and worthless or feel confident and free to express themselves intelligently, simply in how we listen. It is a big responsibility so here's how generous listening works.
Let's put it into practice.
Although I sometimes envy the amazing cars others drive, I keep reminding myself that my banged-up old Honda is the result of values-based choices my wife and I started making 25 years ago.
It’s been a challenge but ultimately satisfying.
Please watch to find out more.
Read MoreSometimes we must take the opportunity to say the things we’d never otherwise say, especially when you’ll never see that person again. It takes courage but will make a huge difference for both of you.
Here’s how.
Getting the most out of our people requires taking care of them.
Here’s the most important thing we need to do.
Many of us face the Cliff of Irrelevance at the end of our careers (and often before). What will our lives be about when the status, achievement, and busyness are gone? We must have the courage to jump off the cliff and learn how to fall well.
Have a watch to find out more.
Organizations are hard-wired to blame individuals for errors because it’s so easy. We love punishing scapegoats. But we miss an opportunity to learn and fix the broken systems, processes, culture, leadership, and safeguards that have let us down.
Here’s another way.
Many of us long to make a difference but compare ourselves to people making incredible things happen, and think, ‘I could never do that.’ But it’s not true. We can apply their secrets to our corner of the world and accomplish more than we ever thought possible.
Here’s how.
Sometimes the people we work with struggle with their performance, like productivity, schedule, quality, safety, communication, or relationships.
It’s tempting to tell them to do something different, but there is a better way.
What’s the secret to moving your team out of conflict and into collaboration?
Appreciate each other. It’s simple but hard.
Here’s how it works.
We all want to help our people and teams be more effective. But the way we go about it is often counterproductive.
Here’s a better way!
Many leaders know little about the lives of the people working for them. Listen to their stories and you will see the transformation. Here’s how.
Read MoreThe facts we often have to deal with can be brutal and depressing, but confronting reality will set you free to take the right action. Here's how.
Read MoreIn today’s video, I discuss those times we feel people are getting in our way, yet it’s often a matter of simply understanding their drivers and needs. We need to speak their language.
Here’s how to do that.
Read MoreSometimes we must confront the fact we are no good at certain things. But using our strengths we can work around our weaknesses.
Here’s how.
Ideally, we’d all get things done in ways that are consistent with our strengths. Problems happen when we think we have to perform like someone else, or we get told how to do our jobs.
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